How to control my thoughts?

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L: Sir, you always say to live with the thoughts. But at any second there are so many thoughts in mind so how to control it sir? How to control mind?

AP: Who will control them? If one is in a dream and the dream is very confused dream, then who will control the dream.

Don’t say, “How to control thoughts?” Don’t say, “How to control dreams?” One doesn’t control dreams. One wakes up.

But we’re not interested in waking up. We’re interested in changing the dreams. Now if you have one dream and then you have another dream, has your position changed for better? I am asking you, you’re dreaming of fire and you’re afraid, now you’re dreaming of fountains and waterfalls and you’re happy, has anything really changed?

Don’t say, “How to control thoughts?” Because even the controller is fast asleep. Ask me, “How do I understand thoughts?” That is waking up. When there are so many thoughts going on in the mind, don’t hold onto them. This much you realize that I’m thinking, right? When you’re thinking you know that you’re thinking. If you can know this much that you’re thinking, you can also remember that every thought is just an external influence, not really important.

Alright, it is there. It is the natural tendency of mind to think. Let the mind be involved in its own preoccupations. Can I stand a the little distance from the mind and look at the mind. That will happen only when you don’t take your thoughts too seriously. Don’t become attached or identified with them. Are you getting it?

You see when you want to control thoughts what you mean is, there are two types of thoughts, Good and Bad. The Bad thoughts need to be controlled, and the good thought need to be promoted. Is that not so? That is what you want. You just asked one part of the question but there was a hidden second part as well. You don’t want to control all thoughts. You want to control all thoughts? No. You say, “I want positive thinking. Let me control the negative thoughts and let me have more and more of positive thoughts,” right?

You want to control thoughts of happiness but you never want to control thoughts of… the other way round rather. Sad thoughts you want to control, but happy thoughts you want to promote. You do not realize that sad or happy, thoughts are thoughts.

And there are so many people who’ve told you that positive thinking is a very good thing. They are idiots. They do not know what the etymology of thoughts is. Where it comes from. They think that by thinking good something good happens. As if by dreaming well something good can happen. As if a good dream is better than a bad dream. Thoughts simply means that the mind does not have clarity. Simple.

What is thought? Pay attention to this. Thought is mind’s problem solving mechanism. When the mind is confused, it thinks. When the mind is not confused it has no need to think. So don’t say that I want to control thoughts. Say, “I need clarity.” In clarity thoughts automatically evaporate. Then there is no need to think. Why should I think? Everything is clear. What to do with thinking? Am I mad man who’ll unnecessarily think? Is thinking my pass time, a hobby?

Because we lack clarity hence all kinds of thought comes. What you call as good, bad, positive, and negative. Never ask for positive thoughts and never ask for control of thoughts. Ask for clarity. So the question then wears around to the issue of clarity. What is clarity and how does one get it? The answer is obvious, it’s there is this moment. How are you clear right now?

In your moments of attention you gain clarity. Confusion comes from not looking at something closely enough, attentively enough. Whenever you will allow yourself to go close to an event, to a person, to a thought, you will gain clarity. But we don’t allow that, why? Because we are prejudiced and attached.

We say “We already know, what is the need to go close and investigate.” You say “No no no, I’m related to this person and there is close relationship. I don’t want to inquire. The fact may hurt me, so I don’t want to know the fact.” And whenever you will have this prejudice and attachment in mind, the result will be lot of confusion and you’ll find yourself thinking a lot.

Whenever you find that you have to think a lot, just tell yourself that I’m making some mistake. And that mistake cannot be corrected by thinking more and more. Thinking is just a symptom of some mistake that I’m making. Otherwise, there can be no need to think. “What is the mistake I’m making, where am I slipping, what is the thought, idea or person to which I’m attached? What am I so afraid of?” And always remember, fear is useless. Fear is imaginary. There is no need to be afraid of anything.



-Excerpts from a ‘Shabd-Yoga’ session.  Edited for clarity

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    • Dear remembrance1blog

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      Below are listed some of the initiatives by the foundation through which you can connect to Acharya Prashant.

      Connect to Acharya Prashant:
      1. Advait Learning Camps (ALC): Advait Learning Camps are monthly 4-day retreats under the guidance of Acharya Prashant in the Himalayas. To participate in the camps, Contact Sh. Anshu Sharma: +91-8376055661 or Sh. Kundan Singh: +91-9999102998

      2. Course in Realization (CIR): Course in Realization is a seven-day scripture based learning program led by Acharya Prashant. To join, either physically or online, contact Sh. Apaar: +91-9818591240

      3. Month of AwakeninG (MAG): Attend Satsangs from Home! MAG is an online series of discourses on handpicked topics by Acharya Prashant on practical and relevant topics like Love, Fear, Achievement etc. To join the online discourses, contact: Sushri Anoushka Jain: +91-9818585917

      4. Meet the Master (MTM): Meet the Master is an opportunity to meet and seek detailed guidance from Acharya Prashant, either in person or online. Contact: Sushri Anoushka Jain: +91-9818585917

      5. Blessings from Beyond: Weekends with Acharya Prashant brings you the unique opportunity for a 2 day 2 night stay with the Master every month. It involves two mystical days of dynamic activities, explorations of the self, sports, meditative reading, deep reflections, midnight walks and more.

      Contact Ms. Anu Batra:+91-9555554772

      Venue: Advait Bodhsthal, Greater Noida, India.

      6. A Day With Master: A day with the Master’ is a rare opportunity for genuine seekers from all across the world to spend 12 hours with the Master at the Advait BodhSthal Ashram – Greater Noida.

      To register yourself, to spend the day with the Master, send in your request at: requests@prashantadvait.com
      or,
      call at: +91-9555554772

      7. Triyog: Daily morning 2 hour Yoga feast for your total well-being. Comprising of Hatha Yog, Bhakti Yog and Gyan Yog.

      Contact: Shri Kundan Singh: +91-9999102998

      Venue: Advait Bodhsthal, Greater Noida, India.

      To join any of the above initiatives, send your specified application to:

      requests@prashantadvait.com

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      PrashantAdvait Foundation

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